At some point, many adult children will face the reality of caring for elderly parents. Nearly 17% of adults living in the U.S. care for someone who is 50 or older, according to Caregiving in the U.S. 2020, a study by AARP and the National Alliance for Caregiving.

If a loved one can no longer live on their own, one option is moving your elderly parents into your home. But how do you know if this arrangement is right for you and your family? Take some time to reflect on several important questions.

What kind of care will your aging parent need at home?

Before you decide to care for your elderly parents at home, consider their mental and physical health. Are they relatively healthy and independent, requiring minimal care? If so, moving them in may allow a chance to bond more with other family members.

However, sometimes health issues or a crisis are a catalyst for the transition. One of the main duties of a caregiver is assessing medical needs. This could mean keeping track of medical appointments, managing medications and chronic conditions, or assessing pain levels.

Before caring for your elderly parents at home, talk with their doctor and other health professionals. Ask yourself if you’ll be able to manage your parents’ chronic illnesses or physical limitations. If they’re experiencing memory loss or cognitive decline, read about common dementia behaviors to be sure you and your family are prepared.

• Consider your needs and schedule

  If your parent needs help using the bathroom during the night, are you willing and able to do so?

• Be proactive and realistic

  Does your parent have a progressive health condition? Will you be able to provide care now and in the future?

• Know your personal limits

  If your parent needs help with activities of daily living(ADLs), such as bathing and dressing, are you comfortable performing these personal tasks? Would home carehelp be an option to supplement care you and other family members can provide?

How’s your relationship with your aging parents?

For some, caring for an aging parent is fulfilling. More than half of caregivers say being a caregiver gives them a sense of purpose and meaning, according to the Caregiving in the U.S. 2020 survey. Would caring for your elderly parents in your home be a positive way to give back some of the care, love, and nurturing they gave you?

Consider the history of your relationship to determine whether you can live together peacefully in the same home, especially since your roles will be reversed.